Ready? Let’s begin.

Step 0 – Preliminary Notes

In order to complete this tutorial, I assume you have installed a base system of Debian or Ubuntu. How this can be done, can be read in different tutorials. This tutorial only focusses on getting nginx+php running without much hassle.

Step 1 – Nginx

Installing nginx is the first step we have to do. This can be easily done by downloading it from the repository.

sudo apt-get install nginx

The default vhost has to be changed in order to work properly.

sudo vim /etc/nginx/sites-available/default

A nice starting point for your config is:

server {
listen 80;
server_name localhost;
access_log /var/log/nginx/localhost.access.log;

## Default location
location / {
root /var/www;
index index.php;
}

## Images and static content is treated different
location ~* ^.+.(jpg|jpeg|gif|css|png|js|ico|xml)$ {
access_log off;
expires 30d;
root /var/www;
}

## Parse all .php file in the /var/www directory
location ~ .php$ {
fastcgi_split_path_info ^(.+\.php)(.*)$;
fastcgi_pass backend;
fastcgi_index index.php;
fastcgi_param SCRIPT_FILENAME /var/www$fastcgi_script_name;
include fastcgi_params;
fastcgi_param QUERY_STRING $query_string;
fastcgi_param REQUEST_METHOD $request_method;
fastcgi_param CONTENT_TYPE $content_type;
fastcgi_param CONTENT_LENGTH $content_length;
fastcgi_intercept_errors on;
fastcgi_ignore_client_abort off;
fastcgi_connect_timeout 60;
fastcgi_send_timeout 180;
fastcgi_read_timeout 180;
fastcgi_buffer_size 128k;
fastcgi_buffers 4 256k;
fastcgi_busy_buffers_size 256k;
fastcgi_temp_file_write_size 256k;
}

## Disable viewing .htaccess & .htpassword
location ~ /\.ht {
deny all;
}
}
upstream backend {
server 127.0.0.1:9000;
}

Ok, we’re done here. Now we’ll install the needed files for PHP.

Step 3 – Now let’s install PHP with FPM:


apt-get install python-software-properties
add-apt-repository ppa:brianmercer/php
apt-get update
apt-get install php5-fpm php-apc php5-cgi php5-cli php5-mysql php5-common php-pear php5-curl php5-suhosin php5-gd php5-imagick imagemagick

echo "apc.shm_size = 64" >> /etc/php5/conf.d/apc.ini
echo "apc.rfc1867 = on" >> /etc/php5/conf.d/apc.ini
sed -i'.original' 's/^# configuration for php imagick module/; configuration for php imagick module/' /etc/php5/conf.d/imagick.ini
/etc/init.d/php5-fpm restart
/etc/init.d/nginx/restart

Step 4 – Installing MySql Server on Ubuntu is a very simple task:

sudo apt-get install mysql-server mysql-client

One useful utility is the mysql_secure_installation script, which limits access to the ‘root’ account, removes the test database, and removes anonymous accounts.

mysql_secure_installation

Restart the MySQL Server:

/etc/init.d/mysql restart

Step 5 -  Postfix

In order to use the mail function you should also install the Postfix server:

sudo apt-get install postfix

++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++
General type of mail configuration: <-- Internet Site
System mail name: <-- server.basoro.org
++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++

For a null client (a server that only sends emails), you replace the existing /etc/postfix/main.cf file with the following:

myorigin = $mydomain
relayhost =
inet_interfaces = loopback-only
local_transport = error:local delivery is disabled
smtpd_banner = $myhostname ESMTP $mail_name
alias_maps = hash:/etc/aliases
message_size_limit = 104857600

Edit also the /etc/aliases file accordingly:

admin: root
root: basoro@basoro.org

Make changes permanent with:

newaliases
/etc/init.d/postfix restart

Step 6 – Install DJBDNS

Asums:
Domain: basoro.org
Another domain: basoro.com
IP Server: 192.168.0.254

wget http://www.djbdnsrocks.org/downloads/djbdnsrocks.tar.gz
sudo aptitude install -R build-essential

i. Install Daemontools

# mkdir -p /var/package
# chmod 1755 /var/package
# cd /var/package
# tar zxvf daemontools-0.76.tar.gz
# cd admin
# cd daemontools-0.76
# patch -p1 < daemontools_errnopatch
# package/install

ii. Install ucspi-tcp

# cd /tmp
# tar zxvf ucspi-tcp-0.88.tar.gz
# cd ucspi-tcp-0.88
# patch -p1 &1 | \

Start svscan

sudo tee /etc/init/svscanstarter.conf <<-\EOA
# /etc/init/svscanstarter.conf
# svscanstarter - keep up daemontools 'svscan /var/service'
description "svscanstarter keep up daemontools"
start on runlevel [2345]
stop on runlevel [!2345]
respawn
exec /var/command/svscanboot
EOA

sudo start svscanstarter # to stop it use: sudo stop svscanstarter
sudo status svscanstarter # check status
ps -ef | sed '/!d/d;/svscan/!d' # check svscanboot/svscan processes

iv. Edit /etc/resolv.conf

– Add in –

domain basoro.org
nameserver 192.168.0.254

v. Preparing for djbdns

# mkdir /var/dns
# groupadd dns
# useradd dnscache -g dns -d /var/dns -s /bin/false
# useradd dnslog -g dns -d /var/dns -s /bin/false
# useradd dns -g dns -d /var/dns -s /bin/false


vi. Install djbdns

# cd /tmp
# tar xvzf djbdns-1.05.tar.gz
# cd djbdns-1.05
# patch -p1 /var/dns/dnscache/root/servers/basoro.org
# echo 127.0.0.1 > /var/dns/dnscache/root/servers/basoro.com
# echo 127.0.0.1 > /var/dns/dnscache/root/servers/1.0.0.127.in-addr.arpa
# echo 127.0.0.1 > /var/dns/dnscache/root/servers/0.168.192.in-addr.arpa

ix. Forwarding ISP external cache

# echo 202.134.1.10 > /var/dns/dnscache/root/servers/@
# echo 202.134.0.155 >> /var/dns/dnscache/root/servers/@
# echo 1 > /var/dns/dnscache/env/FORWARDONLY
# echo 1000000 > /var/dns/dnscache/env/CACHESIZE
# echo 3000000 > /var/dns/dnscache/env/DATALIMIT
# svc -t /var/service/dnscache

Testing :

# dnsqr a www.basoro.com
1 www.basoro.com:
54 bytes, 1+1+0+0 records, response, noerror
query: 1 www.basoro.com
answer: www.basoro.com 86168 A 192.168.0.254

Maintain SVC

Restart Service
# svc -t /var/dns/dnscache

Stop
# svc -d /var/dns/dnscache

Done…!!!

1. Change your statict network interface. In this example is eth1.
# vim /etc/network/interfaces

auto eth1
iface eth1 inet static
address 192.168.0.254
netmask 255.255.255.0
broadcast 192.168.0.255

where eth1 is the network card and ip is your desired server ip address. I used 192.168.0.254 as IP Address.

2. Configure the NAT:

# iptables -t nat -A POSTROUTING -o ppp0 -j MASQUERADE

where ppp0 is the network card that the Internet is coming from. Use ppp0 for dialup connection.

# echo 1 > /proc/sys/net/ipv4/ip_forward

3. Install dnsmasq and ipmasq using apt-get:

# apt-get install dnsmasq ipmasq

4. Reconfigure ipmasq to start after networking has been started:

# dpkg-reconfigure ipmasq

5. Add the line “net.ipv4.ip_forward = 1″ to /etc/sysctl.conf

# vim /etc/sysctl.conf

6. Set your client DNS to 192.168.0.254

There are some recovery tools that are used. All are Windows programs. However, none of which succeeded. This is because the tool is a trial version. Meanwhile, to get the full version required to buy it. Fortunately I have a Ubuntu Linux machine which Ubuntu Lucid Lynx LTS upgrade from Ubuntu LTS Hardy Heron, minimal installation with LXDE. And finally my friend’s problem could be solved with the help of my Ubuntu Linux machine.

Here are some things you need to do with simple commands. This tutorial is written for Ubuntu GNU/Linux, but should be similar for most Linux machines.

1. Make a copy of the image of your SD card.
sudo dd if=/dev/sdb of=SDCARD-backup.img bs=1M

2. Install recoverjpeg package via apt-get
sudo apt-get install recoverjpeg

3. Run the command below.
$ recoverjpeg SDCARD-backup.img
Restored 398 pictures

The pictures that have been recovered will be stored in a folder. Please see the recovery that have been made. Good luck … Go Opensource .

As the previous themes, Simple WordPress Theme is released under a Creative Commons Attribution License 3.0. Here’s the source code of the Simple WordPress Theme.

File index.php

<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC "-//W3C//DTD XHTML 1.0 Transitional//EN" "http://www.w3.org/TR/xhtml1/DTD/xhtml1-transitional.dtd">
<html xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml">
<head profile="http://gmpg.org/xfn/11">

	<title><?php bloginfo('name'); ?><?php wp_title(); ?></title>

	<meta http-equiv="Content-Type" content="<?php bloginfo('html_type'); ?>; charset=<?php bloginfo('charset'); ?>" />
	<meta name="generator" content="WordPress <?php bloginfo('version'); ?>" /> <!-- leave this for stats please -->

	<link rel="stylesheet" href="<?php bloginfo('stylesheet_url'); ?>" type="text/css" media="screen" />
	<link rel="alternate" type="application/rss+xml" title="RSS 2.0" href="<?php bloginfo('rss2_url'); ?>" />
	<link rel="alternate" type="text/xml" title="RSS .92" href="<?php bloginfo('rss_url'); ?>" />
	<link rel="alternate" type="application/atom+xml" title="Atom 0.3" href="<?php bloginfo('atom_url'); ?>" />
	<link rel="pingback" href="<?php bloginfo('pingback_url'); ?>" />

	<?php wp_get_archives('type=monthly&format=link'); ?>
	<?php //comments_popup_script(); // off by default ?>
	<?php wp_head(); ?>
</head>
<body>

<div id="wrapper">

<div id="header">
       <h1><a href="<?php bloginfo('url'); ?>"><?php bloginfo('name'); ?></a></h1>
       <p><?php bloginfo('description'); ?></p>
</div>

<div id="menu">
       <ul>
             <li class="gohome"><a href="<?php echo get_option('home'); ?>/">Home</a></li>
             <?php wp_list_pages('depth=1&title_li='); ?>
       </ul>
</div>

<div id="container">

<div id="content">
        <?php if(have_posts()) : ?>
        <?php while(have_posts()) : the_post(); ?>
        <div class="post">
                <h2><a href="<?php the_permalink(); ?>" title="<?php the_title(); ?>"><?php the_title(); ?></a></h2>
                <div class="post-date">Posted on <?php the_time('F jS, Y'); ?> <?php edit_post_link('Edit Post', '[', ']'); ?></div>
                <div class="post-content">
                       <?php the_content(); ?>
                       <?wp_link_pages(); ?>
                </div>
                <div class="post-meta">Posted by <?php the_author(); ?> under <?php the_category(',') ?> with <?php comments_popup_link('No Comments', '1 Comment', '% Comments'); ?></div>
        </div>
        <?php endwhile; ?>
        <div class="page-navigation"><?php posts_nav_link(); ?></div>
        <?php endif; ?>

<div id="comments">
       <?php comments_template(); ?>
</div>

</div>

<div class="sidebar">
       <ul>

             <li id="search"><h2>Search</h2>
                      <form method="get" id="searchform" action="<?php bloginfo('home'); ?>">
                             <div>
                                    <input type="text" value="<?php echo wp_specialchars($s, 1); ?>" name="s" id="s" size="22" />
                                    <input type="submit" id="searchsubmit" value="Search" />
                             </div>
                      </form>
             </li>
              <?php wp_list_pages('title_li=<h2>Pages</h2>'); ?>
              <?php wp_list_categories('title_li=<h2>Categories</h2>'); ?>
              <li id="archives"><h2>Archives</h2>
                      <ul>
                             <?php wp_get_archives('type=monthly'); ?>
                      </ul>
              </li>
             <?php wp_list_bookmarks(); ?>
             <li id="rss-links"><h2>RSS Feeds</h2>
                     <ul>
                             <li><a href="<?php bloginfo('rss2_url') ?>">Posts RSS</a></li>
                             <li><a href="<?php bloginfo('comments_rss2_url') ?>">Comments RSS</a></li>
                     </ul>
             </li>
             <li id="meta"><h2>Meta</h2>
                     <ul>
                             <?php wp_register() ?>
                             <li><?php wp_loginout() ?></li>
                             <?php wp_meta() ?>
                     </ul>
             </li>

       </ul>
</div>

</div>

<div id="footer">
       <div class="footer-box"><?php wp_footer(); ?><span class="alignleft"><a href="<?php bloginfo('url'); ?>"><?php bloginfo('name'); ?></a> Proudly Powered by <a href="http://www.wordpress.org/">WordPress <?php bloginfo('version'); ?></a>.</span> <span class="alignright">Using Simple Theme by <a href="http://www.basoro.com/">IM Basoro</a> with <a href="http://jigsaw.w3.org/css-validator/check/referer" title="Valid CSS!">CSS</a> and <a href="http://validator.w3.org/check?uri=referer" title="Valid XHTML 1.0 Transitional">XHTML</a>.</span></div>
</div>
</div>
</body>
</html>

File style.css

/*
Theme Name: Simple
Theme URI: http://www.basoro.com/themes/simple/
Description: Simple WordPress Themes For Free.
Version: 0.1
Author: IM Basoro
Author URI: http://www.basoro.com/
*/

body, h1, h2, h3, h4, h5, h6, address, blockquote, dd, dl, hr, p, form {
margin : 0;
padding : 0;
}
body {
font-family : Arial, helvetica, sans-serif;
font-size : 13px;
text-align : left;
vertical-align : top;
color : #111;
}
table {
font-size : 12px;
}
a {
text-decoration : none;
color : #8f3939;
}
a:hover {
text-decoration : none;
color : #111;
}
a img {
border : 0;
}
dd {
padding : 0 0 0 20px;
}
p {
padding : 10px 0 5px;
}
p img {
max-width : 100%;
}
img.centered {
margin-left : auto;
margin-right : auto;
display : block;
}
img.alignright {
margin : 3px 0 2px 10px;
padding : 4px;
border : 1px solid #ededed;
display : inline;
}
img.alignleft {
margin : 3px 10px 2px 0;
padding : 4px;
border : 1px solid #ededed;
display : inline;
}
.alignleft {
float : left;
}
.alignright {
float : right;
}
.clear {
margin : 0;
padding : 0;
clear : both;
}
small {
font-size : 11px;
}
h1, h2, h3, h4, h5, h6 {
font-size : 16px;
font-weight : bold;
}
blockquote {
margin : 10px 0 0;
border-top : 2px solid #ddd;
background : #f5f5f5;
}
blockquote p {
padding : 10px;
}
blockquote blockquote {
float : none;
width : auto;
margin : 0 10px;
background : #fff;
}
form, input, textarea {
font-size : 12px;
padding : 3px;
}
#wrapper {
width : 100%;
margin : 0 auto;
padding : 0;
border-top : 10px solid #666;
text-align : left;
background : #fff;
}
#header {
width : 860px;
margin : 0 auto;
padding : 0;
background : #fff;
}
#header h1 {
font-family : Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;
padding : 20px 10px 0 10px;
font-size : 32px;
font-weight : normal;
}
#header p {
float : right;
font-family : Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;
padding : 10px 40px 20px 10px;
font-size : 16px;
font-weight : normal;
font-style : italic;
}
#menu {
float : left;
width : 100%;
margin : 0 auto;
border-top : 1px solid #ccc;
border-bottom : 1px solid #ccc;
background : #f3f3f3;
}
#menu ul {
width : 860px;
margin : 0 auto;
padding : 0;
list-style : none;
}
#menu ul li {
float : left;
}
#menu ul li a {
display : block;
padding : 9px 15px;
border-right : 1px solid #ccc;
text-decoration : none;
color : #111;
}
#menu ul li a:hover {
background : #ddd;
}
#menu li.gohome a {
border-left : 1px solid #ccc;
}
#menu li.current_page_item a {
background : #ccc;
}
#breadcrumb{
float : left;
width : 100%;
margin : 0 auto;
font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;
font-size: 11px;
font-weight : normal;
color: #111;
}
#breadcrumb p{
width : 840px;
margin : 0 auto;
padding: 15px 10px 5px 20px;
}
#breadcrumb a {
color: #8f3939;
font-weight : bold;
}
#container {
width : 860px;
margin : 0 auto;
padding : 0;
background : #fff;
}
#content {
float : left;
width : 530px;
margin : 0 10px 0 0;
padding : 10px 0 10px 0;
}
.page-navigation {
margin : 10px 10px 0;
padding : 5px 10px 6px;
line-height : 24px;
}
.post {
padding : 10px 20px;
}
.post h2 {
font-family : Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;
font-size : 24px;
font-weight : normal;
}
.post h2 a {
color : #000;
}
.post-date {
padding : 10px 10px 0 0;
color : #666;
}
.post-content {
line-height : 21px;
font-size : 13px;
}
.post-content h2, .post-content h3, .post-content-h4, .post-content h5 {
padding : 10px 0 5px;
}
.post-content h2 a {
color : #8f3939;
}
.post-content h3 {
font-size : 18px;
font-weight : normal;
}
.post-content h5 {
font-size : 14px;
}
.post-content h6 {
font-size : 12px;
}
.post-meta {
padding : 10px 0 0 0;
line-height : 24px;
}
.sidebar {
float : left;
width : 300px;
background-color : #f3f3f3;
margin : 10px;
padding : 10px 0 10px 0;
}
.sidebar ul {
list-style : none;
margin : 0;
padding : 0;
}
.sidebar ul {
margin : 0 0 10px;
}
.sidebar ul li {
padding : 10px 10px 0;
}
.sidebar ul li h2 {
border-bottom : 1px solid #ddd;
font-family : Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;
padding : 8px 10px 9px;
font-size : 18px;
font-weight : normal;
color : #444;
font-style : italic;
}
.sidebar ul ul {
margin : 0;
padding : 6px 10px 0;
line-height : 24px;
}
.sidebar ul ul li {
padding : 0;
}
.sidebar ul ul ul {
padding : 0 0 0 10px;
}
#comments {
margin : 10px;
padding : 10px;
border : 1px solid #f5f5f5;
}
#comment {
width : 450px;
}
#comments ol {
list-style : none;
margin : 10px 0;
padding : 0;
}
#comments ol li {
list-style : none;
margin : 10px 0 0;
padding : 0 0 10px;
border-bottom : 1px solid #ededed;
line-height : 24px;
}
#comments span.comment-author {
font-weight : bold;
}
#respond {
padding : 10px;
background : #f9f9f9;
}
.recentcomments a {
display : inline !important ;
padding : 0 !important ;
margin : 0 !important ;
}
#footer {
float : left;
width : 100%;
margin : 0 auto;
padding : 15px 0 20px 0;
border-top : 1px solid #aaa;
text-align : center;
line-height : 24px;
background : #eee;
}
#footer a {
text-decoration : none;
color : #555;
}
#footer .footer-box {
width : 860px;
margin : 0 auto;
padding : 0;
font-family : Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;
font-size : 14px;
font-weight : normal;
font-style : italic;
}

For the record, Basoro.COM put links at the bottom of the page that lead to a page Basoro.COM. If you do not like, it allowed to eliminate the link.

You can just include this function in your theme’s “functions.php” file.

function get_wp_breadcrumbs() {
	if (!is_home()) {
		echo ('You are here: ');
		echo '<a href="';
		echo get_option('home');
		echo '">';
		echo 'Home';
		echo "</a> » ";
		if (is_category() || is_single()) {
			the_category(' » ',multiple);
			if (is_single()) {
				echo " » ";
				the_title();
			}
		} elseif (is_page()) {
			echo the_title();
		}

	}
	else {
	echo ('You are here: ');
	echo '<a href="';
	echo get_option('home');
	echo '">';
	echo 'Home';
	echo "</a> » ";
	}
}

And then add the following code in the “header.php” file.

<?php get_wp_breadcrumbs(); ?>

So there you have it. Fully customizable, valid breadcrumbs in WordPress. Please let me know what you think.

To install, first download the tar.gz file for your architecture at http://sourceforge.net/projects/swiftweasel/files/, saving it in your home directory. Then run the following commands in the terminal:

sudo tar -xvf swiftweasel-*ubuntu.tar.gz -C /opt
rm swiftweasel-*ubuntu.tar.gz
sudo ln -s /opt/swiftweasel/swiftweasel /usr/local/bin/firefox

Then just click the firefox launcher and it will launch Swiftweasel instead. To uninstall and revert all changes, run the following command:

sudo rm /usr/local/bin/firefox && sudo rm -r /opt/swiftweasel

Quote:
Note: Swiftweasel profile is saved under ~/.sw*/swiftweasel

If you’re experiencing this problem, there’s a very easy fix:

sudo mv /usr/bin/xsplash /usr/bin/xsplash_hidden

This just hides xsplash under a different name so that the login manager can’t find it and run it. I found that it did not cause any problem to have xsplash unavailable. However, the reason I’ve suggested renaming it rather than deleting it is so that if it does cause a problem, you can just rename it back.

For explanation, it turns out that xsplash has a 15-second delay hardcoded into it before the brown splash screen goes away. If you’re using Gnome, apparently Gnome has a mechanism to let xsplash know when it’s done loading, so the brown xsplash screen will go away in less than 15 seconds. But if you’re using a window manager other than Gnome that doesn’t support this mechanism, the brown screen will stay there for the full 15 seconds, while you wait for it.

1. Booting from your ubuntu installation media.
2. Make a new ext3 partition via cfdisk and mkfs.ext3
3. Mount your partition under /mnt/Ubuntu_10.04
4. Copy hardy script to lucid
5. cd /mnt/Ubuntu_10.04
6. debootstrap –arch=i386 lucid .
7. mount proc proc/ -t proc
8. cp /etc/resolv.conf etc/resolv.conf
9. cp /etc/hosts etc/hosts
10. cp /etc/network/interfaces etc/network/interfaces
11. chroot /mnt/Ubuntu_10.04
12. Install the kernel apt-get install linux-image-generic
13. Fix the sources.list file
deb http://archive.ubuntu.com/ubuntu lucid main restricted
deb-src http://us.archive.ubuntu.com/ubuntu/ lucid main restricted

deb http://us.archive.ubuntu.com/ubuntu/ lucid-updates main restricted
deb-src http://us.archive.ubuntu.com/ubuntu/ lucid-updates main restricted

deb http://us.archive.ubuntu.com/ubuntu/ lucid universe
deb-src http://us.archive.ubuntu.com/ubuntu/ lucid universe

deb http://us.archive.ubuntu.com/ubuntu/ lucid-updates universe
deb-src http://us.archive.ubuntu.com/ubuntu/ lucid-updates universe

deb http://us.archive.ubuntu.com/ubuntu/ lucid multiverse
deb-src http://us.archive.ubuntu.com/ubuntu/ lucid multiverse

deb http://us.archive.ubuntu.com/ubuntu/ lucid-updates multiverse
deb-src http://us.archive.ubuntu.com/ubuntu/ lucid-updates multiverse

#backports
deb http://us.archive.ubuntu.com/ubuntu/ lucid-backports main restricted universe multiverse

#partner repos
deb http://archive.canonical.com/ubuntu lucid partner
deb-src http://archive.canonical.com/ubuntu lucid partner

deb http://security.ubuntu.com/ubuntu lucid-security main restricted
deb-src http://security.ubuntu.com/ubuntu lucid-security main restricted

deb http://security.ubuntu.com/ubuntu lucid-security universe
deb-src http://security.ubuntu.com/ubuntu lucid-security universe

deb http://security.ubuntu.com/ubuntu lucid-security multiverse

deb http://us.archive.ubuntu.com/ubuntu/ lucid-proposed restricted main multiverse universe
deb-src http://security.ubuntu.com/ubuntu lucid-security multiverse

14. Install language pack apt-get install language-pack-en-base
15. Reconfigure locale dpkg-reconfigure locales
16. apt-get clean
17. apt-get install grub
18. grub-install /dev/hda
19. update-grub
20. Exit the chroot

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Maka sayapun menanggapi dengan statement, kalau manusia lebih bersifat emosional. Dan disini berlaku hukum sebab akibat. Jangan lup, ingatan manusia berlaku dua arah. Dimana pada satu sisi lebih kuat arus kognitifnya dan disaat lain sifat emosional akan muncul. Dan celakanya, emosi dalam diri lebih kuat. Keadaan ini malah menimbulkan dendam kusumat. Yang diistilahkan oleh Prof. Dwi sebagai “Forgivness”. Coba kalau ingatan manusia hanya kuat disisi kognitifnya, maka dengan mudah kita akan “melupakan” kejadian2 yang lalu. Jadi buat yang tingkat emosinya tinggi, yakin deh tak akan pernah bisa memaafkan…. apalagi melupakan… Bukan masalah melupakan atau memaafkan, yang terpenting apa hikmah yang bisa diambil. Jangan seperti keledai bodoh yang terperosok pada lobang yang sama. Seperti nyanyian The Corrs dalam lagu Forgiven Not Frogotten.

A bleeding heart torn apart, left on an icy grave,
In the room where they once lay, face to face,
Nothing could get in their way, but now the memories of the man
Are haunting her days and the craving never fades,
Shes still dreaming of a man long forgiven, but not forgotten,

Youre forgiven not forgotten
Youre forgiven not forgotten
Youre forgiven not forgotten
Youre not forgotten

Still alone, staring on, wishing her life goodbye
As she goes searching for the man long forgiven, but not forgotten,

Forgiven But Not Forgotten

Beliau bukan sekedar dosen, yang seharusnya sekedar memberikan ilmu. Namun beliau juga mengajari saya “bagaimana seharusnya”.
- Bagaimana seharusnya jadi Dokter.
- Bagaimana seharusnya jadi manusia.
- Bagaimana seharusnya disiplin.
- Bagaimana seharusnya bertanggung jawab.
- Bagaimana seharusnya………

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Nb. Semasa kuliah, beliau dosen yang paling saya takuti.. hehehheheheh…